"Forgiveness is not forgetting, excusing, or smoothing things over. Instead, forgiving breaks the cycle of revenge and creates a new possibility of fairness by releasing us from the unfair past. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you." -David C. McCasland
someone said that yoghurt is for kids -_- it is not. nvm.. to each its own. anyway today i feel very free in office, way too free.
i wonder what do people think about guys being gentleman? is it weird nowadays seeing a guy who will open the door for you, letting you walk out of the lift first, pull the chair for you to sit down, offer to carry your heavy stuff, lend you his coat in cold place/weather (rainy season i mean)? without ulterior motive, just purely being a gentleman. do we still see that? LOL. not that it is very important, in fact i never put a thought about it until today. just think that it's amusing. i know someone (not going to say who) actually does all those. very well mannered? i guess it is good in certain ways, even though we always say that men and women are equal, there are just certain different kind of treatment that women would love to receive from time to time. i admit this.
another thought- why is it that when guys look at pretty gals and make some comments we tend to think that they are struggling with lust and it just doesn't sound right, but when girls openly admire good looking guys it just sounds very normal? or am i the only one who is thinking like that?
just now i read someone's blog entry about what guys dislike about gals. so amusing but very well written. on the other side, WL sent me a few emails on what gals dislike about guys as well. is there a war going on or something? >< i think the most disappointing part about guys is they are hardly faithful. i am still trying my best not to stereotype. ppl with God should be sanctified rite? so shouldn't be that bad.
what is the one thing that i really hate ppl saying to me? shut up i think these 2 words are plain rude. if you ask me to shut up, i will really stop talking to you forever. suggestion: use better words, eg. keep quiet or pls be silent. ok i know i'm weird but that's really what i think. am i a scary person? is it very intimidating talking to me?
last nite i went to kovan with mei, we ended up having dinner with gerald and dropped by his house to take something. i think i've never had such a long conversation with him before =) on my way home i received sms from my cousin that one of shirls' old friend whom i know too just passed away. seriously i don't know what to think or say. i guess i'll always remember him as someone who gave shirls the idea on tickling me whenever i wrapped myself in my mom's fave curtain.
where is he going now? are you certain that you'll go to heaven? do you know that you can lose your salvation? why am i asking so many questions? *livi* 6:31 PM
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livi grace melinda
14/02/82
love everything but durian