2 frogs fell into a very deep hole. one was deaf while the other one was normal. both of them tried their best to jump out of the hole. soon after all the other frogs came and gathered around the hole and cheered them. at the end of the day only the deaf frog managed to jump out, the other frog lost all the motivation to jump and stuck in the hole forever. why? because the truth is all the frogs did not cheer them up in a good way, they actually jeered at them, and said things like "you can never jump out"... oh well but the deaf frog couldn't hear, thinking that they were encouraging him instead.
sometimes just a simple belief from someone, encouragement.. can make a difference. =p
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good dinner outside for 2 nights in a row.. ok my saving up plan failed already haha.. esmond kindly offered his service and drove me n mei to meet reagan at geylang, that place really got a lot of food man. i was telling them that it's just scary and funny that nowadays our conversation revolves around work, boss, payday, comparing whose job is worse.. a few years back we were still talking about school, lecturers, classmates.. geez time flies.. es said in another few years we will start talking about marriage, and another few more years we'll talk about kids.. sigh true.. heh..
last nite i went to meet nicole, susi has gone too long so nic decided to feed me with some emergency grass first haha.. we went to sakae! =p i think i spent almost the whole dinner time laughing at myself. well somehow she managed to get me dig all my secrets out willingly hahaha... well on the expense of her own stories and secrets too. fair exchange. i know a lot of ppl are reading my blog so i won't say anything more than this >_< anyway it was a good time spent. she understands. God's way is the best way.